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輸給柴米油鹽,相愛卻不能廝守:《婚姻故事》教會我們兩人相處的6件事

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#6 少了溝通,你們就只是兩個陌生人。

 

  一個家庭的互動與感情,並不能以三言兩語交代,更不是可由外人去評論。戲中開首的婚姻調解員、Nicole 的母親、雙方的律師等,都只能看到一部分,有些更是被二人情緒下扭曲的部分,沒有人會比他們更懂問題所在。夫妻間開誠布公,才能化解誤會,確認對方的真實感受。

 

 

 《經濟通》所刊的署名及/或不署名文章,相關內容屬作者個人意見,並不代表《經濟通》立場,《經濟通》所扮演的角色是提供一個自由言論平台。

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