13/03/2018

【婚姻五重奏】結束19年的婚姻後，還有信心再愛嗎？

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　　香港離婚率偏高，每三對夫妻就有一對不能白頭到老，知道這個數字後，你還敢結婚嗎？

　　縱使社會上愈來愈多人離婚，但傳統的看法認為離婚是一件不光彩的事，甚至覺得女性在失婚後，較男性難找到另一個可以託付終身的人。不過，現實是只要你願意勇敢踏出第一步，每個人都可以找到屬於自己的幸福，就好似ViuTV《婚姻五重奏》其中一集的女受訪者Sherie一樣，離婚大半年就和男友Jerome閃婚，現在的她彷彿比以前更幸福。

　　經歷過一段長19年、未能走到最後的婚姻，究竟Jerome做了什麼令到Sherie願意多試一次呢？

　　「他會在廁所污糟之前，先去清潔，而不是等我去做。」

　　「他第一次和我媽媽吃飯的餐廳，要走過一條長樓梯才到達。而我媽媽心臟有問題，所以上落樓梯都要慢一點。我沒想到他上樓梯時會幫我媽媽揹手袋，再左手拖著媽媽，右隻手拖著我。就連前夫都沒有拖過我媽媽。」

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　　見微知著，或許就是這些細微的瑣事，令Sherie感覺到 Jerome 就是她一直要找的幸福，即使相識的時間短，但願意為對方付出就夠了。 Jerome亦說了一句話去形容兩人的關係，隔著螢光幕都被閃到：

　　“She is not the perfect woman, I am not the perfect man, we are the way we are.”

　　有過這些經歷，Sherie認為互相付出，互相信任就維持一段婚姻最重要的元素。她有些說話想對經歷過婚姻失敗的人說：

　　「不要覺得現今社會，離婚是一件大事或丟臉的事，要勇敢開懷地面對將來的事，因為如果你停留在那刻，你將永遠失去自己。」

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